If the child is under 6 years old, try to persuade them. If they are over 11, don’t force them. For ages in between, we cannot provide a definitive answer. It would be best to see and assess the child before making a decision.
Parental Divorce and the Child
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Parental Divorce and the Child
Dr. Ömer Uçur offers comprehensive counseling services at his office in Nişantaşı, Istanbul, focusing on the challenges faced by children of divorcing parents and helping them cope with this process. Parental divorce is a significant life event that can have emotional and psychological effects on children.
Purpose and Process of Counseling
Dr. Uçur designs counseling programs specifically for families and children going through divorce. The main objectives of the counseling include:
- Providing Emotional Support: Understanding the emotional impact of divorce on children and offering support during this process.
- Managing the Separation-Grief Process: Helping children express and process the losses brought on by divorce in a healthy way.
- Strengthening Family Dynamics: Supporting parents in maintaining healthy communication with their children and reinforcing family relationships.
Counseling Methods
To help families cope with parental divorce, Dr. Uçur employs various methods, including:
- Individual Counseling: Conducting one-on-one sessions to help children explore and express their emotional difficulties.
- Play Therapy: Using play as a medium to help children understand and process their emotions related to the divorce.
- Family Therapy: Strengthening emotional bonds by improving communication between parents and children.
The Role of Families
Families play a critical role in helping children navigate the challenges of a divorce. Dr. Uçur guides parents on how to support their children and communicate effectively during this time. Family education sessions help parents better understand the divorce process and provide appropriate guidance to their children.
Long-Term Support
Parental divorce often requires long-term support. Dr. Uçur maintains ongoing communication with families, monitors the progress of children, and provides additional support as needed. This approach strengthens children's emotional well-being and fosters positive development in family relationships.
For families in Istanbul seeking professional support during parental divorce, Dr. Ömer Uçur’s comprehensive counseling services can facilitate a healthy transition. This allows children and families to navigate this challenging period more effectively and with resilience.
For more information on this topic and other related issues, refer to Dr. Ömer Uçur’s informational articles.
Frequently Asked Questions
After the divorce, my child doesn’t want to visit the other parent. How should I handle this?
Our child wants to see us together as parents and asks us to hold hands. Should we do it?
No. Even though your child wants this, it will harm the adaptation process after the divorce. Explain that this is not something you can do. Let them know you understand how much they want it.
What should we do for a child who becomes withdrawn or aggressive after a divorce?
To encourage emotional expression, you can say how much you understand their sadness about the situation. For example, if you're the mother, acknowledge their feelings about missing their father: "I know how sad you are about this, and you didn’t want this to happen at all. It’s entirely our fault, not yours. This is how you feel, right?
